how u spell love?

how do you spell love? when you reach a point where the happiness, security, and development of another person is as much a driving force to you as your own happiness, security, and development, then you have mature love. true love is spelled G-I-V-E. it's not based on what you get but rooted in what you can give to the other person. But then what's left to give when you've given all you can?